the problem with men/women is...

Men and women are two different individuals. At some point in time, both cannot get along well. There are certain differences about each of them, which results to misunderstandings.

The problem with women is that...

Women are impulsive. They usually decide on things without thinking about it many times. If they feel on doing something, they do it without any doubt. Women do not usually think of the consequences that might result to their actions. Being impulsive is an effect of being easily carried away by their emotions. What they feel in a certain moment affects their decisions on things.

Most women are self-centered. In a relationship, most women want to be the center of the men’s world. They always want to be notice and be appreciated. Because of this attitude of women, they sometimes do not allow their partners to do things, which men normally do. This is because women want that men will focus their time on them.

Another problem with women is that they complicate simple things. They think too much which in turn causes them to hurt their selves. Specifically, they give different meanings on a thing, which a guy does. They always have this “WHAT IFS” on their minds. With this kind of thinking, most women do not believe on what men tell and show them.

The problem with men is that...

Men are good flatterers. They always tell you things that would flatter you. Sometimes they are telling you these flattering words so that you will not feel bad. Most men are having this kind of attitude. They used this so that girls will feel “kilig” on them.

Men do not show what they really feel. They hide what they feel. Most of them considered crying as something making them less man. If they have problems, they just keep it to their selves, even if they know that there are persons who are willing to listen to them.

Sometimes men become so insensitive. They sometimes do not care on what the girl is feeling. We often call this in our language as “manhid”. They tell you things, which for them does not mean something not knowing that it is already hurting the girls’ feeling deep inside.

Men are sometimes unfair. They do not give importance on what you are doing. It makes you feel like you are not important to them.

With all of this problems men and women have, both of them should not forget that this differences will change. As long as they know how to understand and adjust on each other, it will not be difficult for both of them.